The Death Whisperer Series

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Showing posts with label Matt Redmond. Show all posts
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Thursday, June 16, 2011

A life well lived


No wine review tonight. Instead, I want to talk about two of my heros. Yesterday, we had the memorial service for my son-in-law, Matt Byerly. He died Monday morning at the age of 25 of a horrible cancer. Yet in spite of the tremendous pain and difficulty he suffered, he faced death with dignity, grace, courage, and humor. He was confident of his future, as he was a believer in the Lord Jesus Christ, as am I. My daughter Rachel stood by him through two and a half years of surgery after surgery, several drug trials, and finally, his death. His last hours were agitated as his body began to shut down, yet when Rachel told him that she’d be all right, and if he saw Jesus, he could go, he took her arm,  squeezed it three time, their signal for “I love you,” and died. He’s now with Christ celebrating a life well lived. So tonight I celebrate the lives of two courageous young people from whom I’ve learned so much over these past few years.

I’ve place links to some music videos of Matt’s favorite songs as well as a few that I think are appropriate to a celebration of a life well lived. First songs may seem a bit melancholy, but you’re gonna wanna stomp in celebration by the end. I’ve included the lyrics to a Big Daddy Weave song that says it all. Matt’s lifesong definitely sang to God.

















Hanging by a thread, From the tree of this life
I've been spinning round and round and round
Inside my flesh cocoon
An old beat up Pinto might be what I drive for now
But I'll be driving a Cadillac soon

Cause you know one day I will fly
To my mansion in the sky
And I'll have no regrets
when I leave this place for good
When I say my last farewell
oh, please don't forget to tell them
That I'm not really dead
I'm just changing neighborhoods

Living in this place that is only temporary
I said that this old world is in the process of slipping away
Though I have such a future
I've got to be wary that my bright tomorrow doesn't blind me
to what God has for me today

Cause you know one day I will fly
To my mansion in the sky
And I'll have no regrets
when I leave this place for good
When I say my last farewell
oh, please don't forget to tell them
That I'm not really dead
I'm just changing neighborhoods

Cause you know one day I will fly
To my mansion in the sky
And I'll have no regrets
when I leave this place for good
When I say my last farewell
oh, please don't forget to tell them
That I'm not really dead
I'm just changing neighborhoods